If you’ve never been asked What’s important to you and your life? many things could be coming up for you.
Common reactions, thoughts and feelings
Some common things that come up for people are:
- Why didn’t my parents ever ask me this?
- Why didn’t my partner ask me this?
- Why didn’t my friends ask me this?
- Why did I never think to ask this of the people around me?
- I’ve got no idea what to say
If these or any other questions come up for you, you’re not alone. These sorts of thoughts and the feelings attached to them come up for most people who have not been asked the question before.
What would your life have been like?
You may be starting to realise the impact this question could have had if someone had asked you it a long time ago.
Imagine what you could have created for yourself had you been asked this question as a young child. Imagine how different school would have been had all the children been working towards creating what was important to them. Imagine what you could have created for yourself had you been asked this question 10 years ago.
It’s important to sit with the impact of never being asked this question or never asking it of others.
It might occur as unpleasant but when you consider the impact, you get access to the opportunity being asked this question creates.
Those thoughts and feelings are not pleasant. You cannot change the past but you can alter the future for yourself and for others.
What is possible?
Imagine what your life would be like if everyone close to you lived their life creating what was important to them. What would that look like?
Imagine what it would be like to be able to assist those closest to you, to create what was important to them.
We asked you What’s important to you and your life? so that you can create a life you love and so that you can pass that gift forward.
You can be the person who asked that question of others, that gave them the gift of considering and creating what was important to them.
You get to ask the most important question
This is exciting. You get to ask the most important question to all humans and just listen.
You can ask the question and be ok with whatever comes up for others because you have planted a seed.
They might not know it right away but the question will come up again because everyone wants to create a life that they love. They’ve just never been asked the question.
Start your quest to discover what’s important to you and others
You have started the journey towards considering and creating a life around what is important to you.
We rarely ask it of ourselves and then create what’s important to us.
We rarely ask it of others, listen and then ask the question: “how can I assist you in making that real?””
The answer to What’s important to you and your life? is personal. It is individual.
Who is responsible for creating What’s important to you and your life? Well, you are.
This doesn’t mean you are alone in creating what’s important to you. It simply means that everyone has a different answer.
You are not alone, but you do need a community. That’s why we’re here.
Not everyone is going to want to create exactly what you want but you will find others who want to support you in creating what’s important to you and your life.